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The chaos of new beginnings

Spring is the season of new beginnings. The season typically starts with snow on the ground and perhaps, one last snowstorm. By the end of Spring everything is green, flowers are blooming, baby animals have arrived and the sunlight is noticeably increased and stronger. It seems spring takes forever to arrive and there is a chaos to it’s entrance as it establishes itself. New beginnings in our lives are often a bit chaotic just like spring. There is a need to regulate our emotions and nervous system and it takes more skills to do so, analogous to most people during an April snowstorm. The temperatures vary from mitten weather to short weather and our ability to be prepared and adapt is at times tested. Just like the new beginnings in our lives, vacillating from looking back to the familiarity of those mittens and looking forward to the freedom of wearing shorts all of the time. Spring is full of surprises, just like the new beginnings in our lives. Newly planted plants and ideas begin to grow and sometimes get nipped by the frost. Within all of the chaos there is order, the hardy plants thrive, the effective ideas begin to take form, and a path starts to emerge and we follow feeling a little more in alignment with what is starting to manifest. We can start to see the order, the organization and our nervous systems follow suit and settle. The sun does come up tomorrow, the moon cycles with it’s waxing and waning, the new growth becomes stable and blooms and we have survived another new beginning and perhaps learned something about ourselves in the process.

Between Seasons

We are in between seasons- moving from the dormancy of winter into new beginnings. The trees are still holding the hues of brown as we await the coming of the buds. Perhaps you have been in a place of slumber, dreaming into the seeds that are laying inside. It’s not too late to take time to turn awareness inside to listen to what is wanting to unfold in you. Take some time to drop in, feel into the rootedness of the earth. Once you hook up to the vibration and blood of Mother Gaia, feel the natural flow that starts to wake up in you. What is calling you, what is your true nature? Lean a little deeper into the earth or the trees and listen to the sounds and vibration that is calling both from below and from the air, the sky, and the winged ones. Songs are getting a bit louder from the birds- what are they singing to you? Movement between the two is getting more potent- squirrels are chasing in the trees. Can you feel the momentum building? Listen….. it is always there to support you.

New Beginnings

January; the time for new beginnings according to the Gregorian calendar.

We often think of new beginnings as something exciting, shiny and new, like the birth of a child, a new relationship, a new career, so much potential, so much hope. We are at the beginning but we also have expectations about what could be, hopes for the future and attachment to outcome. At times it is very evident what our attachments are, my new job will bring me more money and happiness for example. This relationship will be the one where I find true love, or at least participate in a healthy relationship without drama is another example. Sometimes the expectations and attachments are more subtle. Going into buying a new car just wanting the car to run but when it does not run getting upset and wondering why things like this always happen to me. There is a hope the car will run and an underlying expectation that one does not get to have things that work and neither will this car.

Expectations are a form of judgment, as if they are not met there is an underlying way it “should” be. This is different from morality as morality is a value system, something that is important and a value is lived. It is not put out for others to adhere to, it is your value and you live it. An expectation or judgment is put out for all to adhere to with a universal right and wrong. The consequence of some expectations are small, a little disappointment that the cake was not chocolate, but some have major consequences in our lives. Unmet expectations of ourselves often lead to shame which makes us ineffective in shifting behaviors or expectations. Judgments and expectations of others interfere in relationships and make compassion very difficult.

Some new beginnings require much hard work. Shifting expectations, judgments and releasing attachment to outcomes is some of the hardest work an individual can take on, especially the self judgments and expectations. I would invite you to start a new beginning this year, using the winter to clarify your values, the ones you choose to live by, taking the time to go inside and really find compassion for yourself and clarity in who you are. And as you find those values, I would invite you to drop the expectations and judgments of yourself and others. There lies the hard work. I think it is work that is done throughout a lifetime and at each level of dropping judgments and expectations, there is a little more freedom and a little more compassion. I would invite you to attend one of our workshops and find the sludge that keeps you from dropping judgments and expectations of yourself and others. Come spend a day in nature exploring the season of what’s unfolding within you.

December:

As you are drawn into the stillness and depth of December notice the quiet nature brings. This invitation to slow down even in the hustle and bustle of holidays, time with family and friends can be a present! Go ahead and be with the trees, the cold air, the breeze and the sound of your feet on the snow or slushy ground. Take some time to walk with the stillness of earth and nature among the trees, maybe find a forest, a meadow, or a park to take a stroll. Take time to sit by a fire and absorb the smell of the wood, the sound of the crackling embers, and the glow of the fire. We invite you to notice your breathe as you exhale, let the cold chill warm your heart and touch your soul.

Some invitations to connect with yourslef and the natural world:

Allow yourself to take a moment and gaze out the window and be with all that you see in nature and be ‘with’ and part of the natural world.

Grab a friend take a walk, giggle, sing and maybe just listen to the sounds of the time of quiet, stillness, and low light.

Notice the barren ground and trees without leaves be with the stillness and while you notice remember there is not nothing going on—the trees and earth may be resting yet transfomation is always occurring. Be with the mystical in the natural world.

Transitioning into Winter

Darker days, cooler temperatures, the landscape turning to hues of gray and brown. What is nature inviting in us as we transition into winter? This is a time of year to turn inward, slow down, create space to begin to nurture dreams. This is an opportunity to expand consciousness and ponder what needs attending in us. What lies dormant and ready to be contacted? Some say it is a time to nurture the light within our own darkness.

We invite you to take time to meditate, dream, sit in stillness, walk in nature without an agenda. Listen for the whisper and calling of your healing and initiation.

Join us on January 24th at Sacajawea Retreat Center in Apple Valley as we collaborate with nature to explore your internal process with you.

Ancestors

We had a couple of amazing experiences on our retreat and fall workshop. For the retreat we had amazing weather, swimming comfortably in a northern Minnesota lake on the last weekend of September, drumming and dancing, using the sauna and restoring our souls.

The fall workshop at Eastman Nature Center was also beautiful fall weather with all of the fall colors and sunshine. We worked on clearing the sludge of our ancestral lines, the family legacies that keep us mired in familiar patters that no longer serve us. We often don’t think of healing the patterns we inherit from our ancestors, the epigenetic or transgenerational wounding. But what a gift we give our descendants when he heal. Some say it goes both ways, and the ancestors also heal. The best part is how we get to be free of the no longer helpful lineage experiences and live more authentically. At the workshop drumming assisted releasing that sludge and a sense of calm with some playfulness permeated the group.

Thanks to all who participated. We hope to see you again soon

Elementor #2054

September blog:  The time to slow your roll and bee…………..  

This year is has been glorious with the sun warnming the days and the rain subsiding.  Yet as fall peaks in he weather just has a different feel with cooler mornings and darkness coming a bit earlier each day.  We invite you to notice the crispness in the air and maybe even in the apples as they share their yummy, tangy sweetness.  I am sharing some pictures of the flowers from a friends garden and they are beautiful and sleeping quarters now to the bees.  I have some seedum in my yard and each morning I go out and notice the bees butts in the air as the bees are snoozing with their tiny faces in the plants and flowers.  They work so hard gathering nectar during the day and this time of year seek warmth and sweet sleep in the flowers.   

Where in your life are you working hard?  

Can you slow down and rest on the ground?

Maybe take out a blanket and pillow and just be with the earth-even for ten minutes. TAKE THE TIME to greet the earth and find yourself-I beleive it is so worth it.

Look and notice deeply through your eyes  the lasting beauty of the flowers and you could even see the sleeping bees-be careful!

Hear, see and smell the trees just starting to shed their leaves-feel the crunch under your feet of these leaves as they recycle back to earth and give back nourishment.

Consider joining us this coming weekend for our retreat in Aekly MN.-still a few spots left

Also our October 11th  1 day workshop  

Where: Eastman Nature Center
Cost: $185.00- 10% for multiple workshops
Time: 9:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
 5.5CEU’s  with the Board of Psychology

register at Amidstthetrees.com  –workshops

https://amidstthetrees.com/restorative-workshop-for-helping-professions/#l

Can you see and take in all the beauty in the world?

What beauty do we overlook as we navigate through life? Do you notice the mushrooms, the moss, the tiny flowers as you visit the woods? Or do you only see that which is big and right in front of your face? Stop, look, take in the intricate detail of the minute structure, color, form of these beauties lying along the forest floor. So much goes into their existence – they breath, take in water, sunlight, grow, transform, decay, decompose, and begin again.

Can we also honor the unique organization of all living things…….. human, plant form, and animal? Whether we are seen or not seen- we each have a make up that deserves to be honored and recognized. We invite you to start seeing more magnificence in the world. The brilliance of nature has so much to teach us.

Will you listen to the messages with us? We would love to hold space for you to slow down, sit with yourself, and hear what the woods wants to communicate to you- join us for our September 27th Weekend Retreat or our October 11th workshop to explore your true nature. www.amidstthetrees.com

What can you find amidst the trees?

In the last few months I have had the opportunity to visit three mountain ranges, all surrounded by the trees. First there was the Ouatchita Mountains, the only mountain range in the US that runs east/west. Here I found streams, waterfalls, paths, healing, fog, sunsets, and rocks amidst the trees. Often times the trees were not the focus, the streams or rocks caught your eye first but they were constant, holding, adding to the beauty even if they were not the primary focus. Sometimes a tree would grab your attention and show you something and other times they would gently sway in the background giving shelter and protection to the animals, as well as being a food source.

The next mountains were the Tetons. They are majestic and wild and amidst the trees. There you could find mountains, lakes, the power of nature, animals, community and death amidst the trees. The trees once again were often in the background to the mountains but once in awhile they would be the predominant feature in a subtle way, always there and always supporting in some way.

My final mountain trip was to the Canadian Rockies. Spectacular. The beauty is awe inspiring, one of the most beautiful places I have seen. The mountains, of course, are the predominant feature and the tress accent and support, adding to the beauty, giving color and texture and once again providing sustenance to those who live in the forested mountains. Amidst the trees I found lakes, clouds, peace, tranquility, waterfalls, streams, and beauty everywhere I looked.

Wherever you find yourself in this world, notice what you see amidst the trees. There are hidden gems everywhere, even the places where trees are sparse, perhaps even more is hidden in the trees there. Find the beauty and know the trees are holding the beauty within and without. Come play in the tress with us at our retreat in September, the trees should be colorful then, or at our next workshop. We look forward to seeing you.

June blog: rainy days and Mondays

Hey wow hi its June 2024 and I am here writing another June blog-I feel very lucky.

Such a difference a year makes, last June I wrote about water and there was such a lack of it in our world in MN.  Now we have a literal overflow.  Nature, she chooses, and we are sometimes along for the ride. The green is spectacular in the trees, plants and grasses.  The smell and feel of rain helps me find my center in my soul.  

I am grateful for walking on squishy ground and soggy sidewalks.  As I notice the opposite, I am super smiley when I feel the sun on my face and soak up the rays of her warmth.  Summer brings all of this and more.  Opportunities to hear nature, feel cool breezes, hear birds chirping, and see some much life all around us.  

I have been lucky on my way to the barn at Hold Your Horses to watch eagle parents raise two babies in a big nest next to the road.  The last week I have seen the eaglets standing on the side of the nest looking out over the horizon.  I believe they are just fledging and learning to fly-I can’t wait.  Now they look like they just rolled out of bed with their bed head and funky feathers coming in.  I hope I can stand on the edge of my comfort zone each day and continue to learn to soar and fly with whatever life hands me.

What helps you to land deeper in your soul?

How do you relate to the sound of raindrops on your skin?

How can you keep flying even when the rain pounds hard on your skin?

In blessings for summer and each of you I offer you dewy rain that kisses your toes as you walk on the morning grass.

Molly